Def - Random #1

This morning, as usual, get up at 5 a.m. 

Well, today is Friday, and yesterday was public holiday due to 1st Muharram Islamic New Year.  Tomorrow is Saturday.  So you know what it mean?  Yes, harpitnas it is, hari kejepit nasional.  The most lazy day to start the day in the morning.

Then, hardly open my eyes, hardly move on from my comfort, cold and cozy blanket.  Hardly preparing breakfast for Def, Bapak and me.  Hardly preparing snack for Def's school.  Then all the routines as usual, until Def go to school on 6.30 a.m.

Fifteen minutes later....

Bapak return from drop Def at school, so I never look at the window who is coming.  But then, I heard Def's voice...  "Assalamualaikum, I'm coming, not go to school"

Me   : What the h$%^&&$@#@??!!
Def   : Sekolahnya tutup, Bu.  Libur.
Me   : Tapi gak ada pengumumannya di buku penghubung tuh
Def   : Ya, gak tau

Me texting to Def's teacher, is it true that today the school is close?
Def's teacher texting replied "Yes, we already distributed the announcement on Wednesday"

Me  :  Deeeeeff, gak terima surat edaran waktu hari Rabu??
Def  :  Gak
Me  :  wait, hari Rabu kan Def outing class, nah abis outing class tuh pasti dibagiinnya.   Memangnya abis outing class, gak balik lagi ke kelas?
Def  : Gak, langsung naik mobil jemputan pulang
Me  :  Temen-temen Daffa juga gitu?
Def  :  Gak juga sih, ada juga yang balik lagi ke kelas.  Tapi kata temen Daffa yang satu lagi, langsung pulang aja, gak usah balik lagi ke kelas.  Ya udah, Daffa pulang
Me  : T____T

Well, Def happily changed his uniform, then play games on Bapak's mobile.  Bapak go back to our bedrom and continue to zzzZZZzzzzz.... Me?? Oh my, why this should be happen on this harpitnas, somebody please tell me why.... #bump my head on the wall#

and he sleep by himself

Sejak kamar Def direnovasi kecil2an, belum seharipun Def tidur sendiri di kamarnya.  Selama ini kamarnya hanya dipakai untuk main komputer dan belajar.  Walaupun semua barang2 pribadinya sudah ditaro disitu semua.

Nah sejak ada Qisha, udah mulai berasa sempit dong kasur qta sekarang kalo dipake berempat.  So, mulai deh, ngerayu Def utk tidur di kamarnya sendiri.  Lah, anak jaman sekarang, udah disiapin kamar cakep2 begitu, tetep bilang masih ada yg kurang aja.  Def mau tidur di kamar tidurnya sendiri, asalkan udah dipasangin televisi AC dan lamput tidur.  Ehmm, okay, televisi udh pasti gak mungkin dikabulin, krn dikhawatirkan Def bakalan males belajar, ntar maunya nonton muluk.  Sedangkan AC, bisa dipertimbangkan untuk dibeliin.  Lampu tidur?? Sempat cari2 di ITC tapi lampu tidur yg Def mau gak ada lagi, jadi Def pun skip si lampu tidur.

Akhirnya akhir October, kita beli deh tuh AC, yang 1/2 PK aja, cukup buat kamar kecil.

Malam itu juga Def langsung pindah bobo di kamarnya sendiri dong. Ditemenin dulu sama ibu sampe nyenyak, baru diam2 ibu tinggal.  Memang sempat khawatir dia, ktnya kalo ntar tengah malam dia kebangun kalo mimpi buruk gimana?  Def bangunin ibu aja, nanti ibu temenin lagi bobonya.  Oke then, zzzzZZZzz... takjub jg tuh anak sekarang tidur di kamarnya sendiri.  Sempat bolak balik diliat ke kamarnya, eh kok ya masih tidur nyenyak. 

Two hours later....

Def masuk kamar, manggil2, katanya kebangun dan minta ditemenin bobo lagi.  Haiyyaaaa.. baiklah ganteng, ibu temenin lagi.  Sebentar aja kok, tuh anak udah nyenyak lagi.  Pas subuh ibu bangun, loh kok di luar udah terang, udah kedengeran suara tivi pula.  Sempet nuduh si bapak jangan2 dia lupa matiin lampu sama tivi di luar semaleman neh.  Pas diliat ternyataaa.... Loh, Def, udah bangun?

Oke, si ganteng kebangun jam 4 pagi, dan gak bisa tidur lagi.

Dan itu kejadian begitu terus berulang selama 4 hari berturut2.  Bangunin ibu tengah malam, dan kebangun subuh2 tanpa bisa bobo lagi.  Kasihan juga ya, takutnya ntar pas di sekolah anak ini ketiduran pula di kelas.  Akhirnya ibu bilang, ya sudahlah, Def balik lagi aja bobo sama qta bareng2, krn sepertinya Def belum bisa bobo sendiri.  Tapi Def tetap semangat mau bobo di kamarnya.

Dan di malam yang kelima, Def pun sukses bobo nyenyak semaleman, all through the night!  Bahkan pas paginya dibangunin mau sekolah, malahan susah banget.  Oh anakku, kamu kok cepet amat gedenya ya.

Kemarin2 mmg sempet ngebayangin, kapan ya, anak2 bobo di kamarnya sendiri2, dan ibu bisa bobo berdua aja bareng si bapak.  But, hey, be carefull on what you wish for.  By the time the oldest brother finally has his own room, then move to his own bed, I feel miss him very much.  Quietly, I cried when I watched him sleep by himself.  Dunno whether it is cry because I'm happy or because I'm not ready to separate with him.

Well, I wish you sleep like a baby, all through the night, and have a sweet dream, my boy!

Perahu Kertas - Bagian 2

After Perahu Kertas, unpatiently I wait for the part 2.  Again, I watched with Def.

 

It was as good as the first part.  A GOOD ONE!!

I cried couple of times, for the good and the bad part of Kugy - Keenan - Luhde - Remi.  Then I become more in love with Kugy and Keenan.  Become their number one fans.

By the time the movie launched at the cinema, I already finished read the book.  So yes I did compare the movie with the book.  But for me, I love them both!  The ending is even great!  Hi, Neptune, thank you for sending your two agents to the earth...

Update:  I watched the movie for the second time a week later. 

This time, I watched the movie by my self...  So dunno what the plan before, but suddenly my husband stop the car in front of Metropole 21 and asked me to get off.  Oh okay, I know what's the plan now.  I got off the car in a hurry and left the two confuse kiddos behind hahahaaaaa... According to my husband, Def dunno where will I going, while Qisha cried a lot, but then she can get over it.

The feeling is still the same.  The feeling is still there.

Karena hanya bersamamu segalanya terasa dekat, segala sesuatunya ada, segala sesuatunya benar.  Aku gak mau... sepuluh, dua puluh tahun lagi aku sakit kaya gini setiap aku ingat kamu - Kugy - Perahu Kertas 2

Saya cinta, selalu cinta, dan akan terus cinta sama kamu.  Kugy Karmachameleon, saya cinta kamu sejak pertama kali kita ketemu - Keenan - Perahu Kertas 2

Aku melepas kamu supaya kamu gak terus-terusan buat bahagiain aku.  Karena...hati kamu udah gak di sini - Remi - Perahu Kertas 2



Keenan sudah pernah ada saja sudah cukup.  Ikuti saja kata hati kamu.  Kemanapun itu.  Hati tidak bisa bohong - Luhde - Perahu Kertas 2

Lebaran 2012 : Just the Four of Us

Oma pulang kampung!!!

Right, cuman Oma doang, tadinya Def juga mau ikutan, tapi berhubung Oma perginya akan ikut rombongan "Pulang Basamo" keluarga besar kita, yang akan nyewa satu bis Lorena bolak balik.  Langsung kita kasian sama Def dan Oma kalo harus menempuh perjalanan 2 hari dari Jakarta ke Padang.  Walaupun Def bilang gak masalah, dia gak peduli hrs duduk di dlm bis selama itu, dia yakin akan betah, dia tetep kepengen naik bis.  Sampe mohon2 minta ikutan, pengen ngerasain naik bis.  Yah Def, ibu sih pengen ksh ijin kamu jalan2 ke Padang, tapi mana tega ibu kalo kamu hrs kesananya pake bis, gak ya Def, nanti kapan2 kita ke Padang, pake pesawat okeh.  Dibilang begitu pun gak mempan, sampai kita janjiin dia akan kita ajak jalan2 kemanapun yg dia mau selama libur Lebaran di Jakarta, asal gak merengek lagi minta ikut ke Padang.  Berhasil?? Gak tuh, dia tetep ngotot pengen ikut Oma #mendadakpusing

Eniwei, singkat cerita, akhirnya Def pun ikhlas Oma berangkat tanpa dirinya.  Walaupun qta tetap gak tega Oma hrs berangkat pake bis, jd kita beliin tiket pesawat buat Oma pulang ke Jakarta.  Yeayy!!

And, this is it, first time in my life, celebrating Idul Fitri without my mother.

Pernah sih, waktu jaman kuliah dulu, ibu yg ke Padang bareng sama Om Mel, Om Asep dan Om Ar.  Sementara Oma berlebaran bareng Angku aja berdua di Jakarta.  Tapi tetep beda ya sama yg sekarang, scr status udh gak single lagi.  But my mom is stil the best.  The BEST ever!  Oma berangkat tgl 16 Agustus, 2 hari sblm Lebaran, dan balik ke Jkt seminggu kemudian.  But as usual, she already prepared everything for our Lebaran.  Oma udh pesenin ketupat lengkap dgn sayur betawinya buat qta, udah siapin ayam dan ikan yg udh dibumbuin, tinggal di goreng aja.  Udh siapin juga gulai telur yg tinggal dimasak dikit lagi.  Sampe kue2 Lebaran pun udh dibeliin sama Oma. Oh, I love you so much, mom!

Otomatis ibu dan bapak ngambil cuti ngantor agak lama selama Oma pulang kampung.  Cuti 5 hari kerja, jdnya 11 hari dong termasuk tanggalan merah, mantap lah.  Qta msh sempet ngalamin 2 kali sahur berdua aja, tanpa Oma, tapi Bapak loh yg nyiapin sahurnya, heheheee...  Bukan krn ibu gak bs nyiapin, tapi gak tau knp si Qisha ini rewel dan susah bgt tidurnya.  Jd Qisha baru bs tidur nyenyak menjelang sahur, yg otomatis hrs ibu tungguin dulu sampe dia bener2 bobo, baru bisa sahur.

And, this is it, first time in my life, celebrating Idul Fitri without my mother, only with my little family.  Just the 4 of us.

Kita sholat Idul Fitri bareng2, pulang dari situ kita saling maaf2an yg sama sekali jauh dari kata serius, trus photo2, trus makan, trus silaturahmi dgn tetangga, bagi2 angpaw lebaran.  Trus sisanya tidur sampe sore.

Happy Idul Fitri all!  God Bless Us!

Perahu Kertas

Actually, Dee is not one of my favorite writer.  In fact, I never read her books before.  Dee adalah nama populernya sbg penulis, nama populernya sbg penyanyi adalah Dewi Lestari.  Bareng dgn teman2nya, dia bikin grup nyanyi, namanya RSD alias Rida Sita Dewi.  Tapi belakangan dia ngeluarin album solo juga.  Baik itu secara group ataupun secara solo, lagu2nya enak2 didengerin, mostly I like her songs.

Entah kenapa, pas lagi liat2 tweet2 di socmed, ketemulah dgn account-nya Dewi Lestari ini.  Diliat2 tnyata tweet2nya lucu2, then count me in as one of her follower.  Then she launched her new movie, Perahu Kertas, base on her book with the same title.  I'm not interesting to watch it at the first time, I think it will be the same romantic movie as other Indonesian movie.  Because of many people commented about this movie on her twitter, I begin curious about this.

So, I watch this movie, Perahu Kertas, with my son, Def, a week after the premiere.  This is not the first movie - which base on a novel - that I watch without rading its book first (let say the serries of Harry Potter and Twilight Saga).  Because usually when it comes to our Indonesian movies, I fall in love with the books first, then more interesting to watch its movie (let say for Laskar Pelangi, Ayat-Ayat Cinta, and The Firm).

And you know how my reaction after the movie over?? Hurry up to Gramedia downstair in MKG2, to buy the book and the soundtrack's CD.  Yes, the movie is so cool!!  Once again, COOL!! I fall in love with their character for the first sight, Kugy and Keenan.  I fall in love with Adipati, the actor who play as Keenan.  I fall in love with Dee, thanks to her for creating such a wonderful book and movie (she made the movie scenario by the way). The movie is so romantic, so funny, so sad.  The third Indonesian movie that can make me cry.  I can't forget the quot in some of their dialogues.  Such a beautiful words.

The movie is separate into two parts.  They alredy shot for one part and it took 4,5 hours film, so the producer and director agreed to separate it into two parts.  That's also another reason for me to right away read the book as soon as I arrived at home.  I want to know the ending hahahaaa... And after I read the book completely in 3 days (blame it the kids who always bother me everytime I started to read).  Oh I can't wait for the second part of movie! October, please come hurry! For me, the book is good to read, the movie even better, but the soundtrack is the best.

Update: I watch the movie, for the second time 4 days later and still love it!  And this Lebaran holiday was officially open and close by watching this Perahu Kertas the movie.  Yay!